*When do you know you have the love of Allah ﷻ? *You already have Allah's love. The question never is, 'do you have *His *love?' The question is never 'is *He *close to you?' The question is always, Are you close to Him?
There is absolutely no question about the absolute, overwhleming love the Creator, the All-Loving, gives everyone, in the sense of rahmah to say the least - everyone. It's your willingness to embrace it.
And when do you know that?
When you found Him in your salaah, in your prayer, in your mu'amalat.
Have you found Him yet?
Meaning, do you have a moment of your heart present with Allah ﷻ, knowing that He is Naadhiri - He is looking at me. Haadhiri - He is present with me. Shaahidi - He is witnessing me, He is observing me. I am in Allah's presence, and start building on that.
وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ إِحْسَانًا
"And to parents, good treatment."